Ever since I was born into this world I have gotten to understand that we’re surrounded by people who have different characters. I always ask myself who I am really. Am I the kind of person who loves being pushed around,? or a fellow who loves to follow peoples steps? Perhaps the fellow who love to stand on his or her opinion? This 3 characters are indeed different, the first one which says am I the kind of person that loves being pushed around by people, simply means that you don’t have a say for yourself, people control you, they sit while you stand. they also get to live your life for you which is so bad, the second which says am I the kind of person who love to follow others, just because your friends do something you decide to do it also, No, you don’t have to live your life the way they live theirs, you don’t need to be enticed by what they do, you will be like, I want to do like them, I want to be like them, all those things you don’t need, you might end up becoming a pest or perhaps they end up calling you a snitch. The most important one of all is living your life the way you want to, no one should live your life for you and you shouldn’t live your life like other people no matter who they are.
Learn to have your say, don’t let people detect your do’s and dont’s who you want to be. its fine having a role model, put someone ahead of you, like, I want to be like this person, its fine but it should be on your free will and don’t copy every step the person makes. The route your role model took to his or her success might not be the same route God has prepared for you to take to your destination, I want u today to stand on your opinion, decide who you are, let no one push you around, you shouldn’t follow other people because they’re doing it, you don’t know what inspired them to do what they are doing. You need everyday to discover who you really are instead of who you want to be. when you discover who you really are then you discover who you want to be and your life will be on the right track.