Student Psychological issue

90% of students suffer psychological problems. Mostly in high school and teen age. Due to the emotional trauma, which goes in different aspect of a teen’s life; for instance when parents don’t care for their children, pay less attention to their children and in some instance go to the extent of losing Faith in them, comparing them with more physically and mentally stable people, thereby making them feel worthless which makes them feel left out and lose confidence in themselves.

There is always the issue of low self esteem, having the mind set that nothing good can come from them and being a disaster to people around them. As a result of this, many students/teen’s ideas are kept to themselves because no one wish to hear from them. You see, students die with their dreams of becoming great and adding value to their lives to affect the world. You know,the best place to discover people with the best and honourable potentials is in the grave.

Not being financial stable also contributes to our topic. Most people especially the elders say that it is the duty of the parents to provide for their children, but in case it skipped your thought, the children also bears the burden if his/her parents is unable to provide for them. They tend to lack concentration in their studies, they feel remorseful when requesting form their parents. They feel they don’t have a great opportunity to adequate learning a environment.
Even when they struggle to make good grades at school, body systems is being damaged bit by bit.
For an instance, a child with no adequate leaning facilities like light, text books, gadget and a quiet place, might likely suffer eye problem when there is continuous use of candles, lanterns and so on which does not provide a bright current.

A child without text books would have less opportunity to get prepared for the next class as he/she can not read ahead of the class.

Then what about the gadgets, when I say gadget, I dont mean manual phones(button phones) am referring to a smart android phone, a laptop, a recorder and so on.

Yes most times, parents find it difficult meeting up to this things, that is why i would love to encourage family planning. Get intouch with a marriage counsellor, who will provide counselling to help families, couples and individuals
resolve interpersonal difficulties,
develop effective and
satisfactory relationships and
build meaningful support

No matter how busy you are looking for money, try to meet a counsellor before it affects your child.
Some people ask questions like: Does a child really need a quiet time?

Well,of course Yes,they need a private time and place for study,without distraction.
We are tired of hearing the statement “children are the leaders of tomorrow” when nothing is done but instead they keep on constituting nuisance on the street.
Parents should look after their children, know how they feel, get a point from them, and I advice you start it on time so they will get used to you and don’t keep distance. We are all humans with different behaviours,life styles,abilities, talents,so try to figure out what your children are good at, teach and train them to be them and not your neighbour or friend’s children. Every child has something running through their mind.

No child is dumb, No child is useless, No child is sluggish, No child is wild, No child is a bully, No child is a disaster, No child is violent.

It all depends on the character the parents play at home, as they say, Charity begins at home. The first social environment for a child is the home. Every child is intelligent, Just make the environment conducive and you will understand.

Derazy Ajah

Ajah Goodnews Chidera Socially known as Derazy Ajah is an aspiring student of Ebonyi State University, with the aim of studying law. An indigene of Ebonyi State, she has a soft spot for writing, which she started at age 12, "Writing is simply the way I put out my thoughts",she always say. Her love for writing led her to put down nice peice of works. She has written lots of beautiful works. She owns the blog site where she puts out her works. She is the future yet to be seen.